Most people can relate to that overwhelming feeling navigating through life when things just feel non stop and your to do list is never ending. Everything has seemed particularly hectic lately and I badly need some time to recharge.
- My job has been busy. That said, it's pretty much always like that as once one project is completed, a new one starts with more deadlines! I took part in some extra training that was over a weekend and also had to join in some calls from home so it has felt more full on lately.
- Mini has been sick again several times in a row plus teething. I've been told that once the kids start at daycare they are constantly picking up things the first 1-2 years until their immune system strengthens and it definitely seems true in her case. When she is unwell it typically means worse sleep for all of us, extra doctor's visits and worry.
- My husband came down with stomach flu and was out of action for several days and then I caught it too. One night in the middle of trying to bring Mini to bed I had to run to the bathroom to throw up. Luckily hubby was there at the time to take over. When one of us is sick the other person ends up having to pick up the slack. I have a lot of respect for single parents!
- Looking after a toddler is lots of fun, but it's also exhausting! Gone are the days when she would sit happily in her hair chair while we all ate. Now she just wants to be running around on the go constantly - usually dragging me behind her! She also loves playing chasing games around the kitchen. That's my workout for the day sorted, haha!
- Keeping on top of general household stuff plus various errands feels impossible. We have so much clutter and I would love to have some time to Marie Kondo the place!
- On the rare moments I do have a moment to myself, all I want to do is lie on the couch and watch youtube or drink tea and scoff chocolate. I often lack the motivation to be productive.
The good news is I have some annual leave coming up and we have a long trip to Ireland planned. The actual traveling can be stressful but once we are there, we'll have a lovely time I'm sure! I am purposely trying to not over plan the trip so we can just be spontaneous each day depending on how we feel.
It was definitely my experience that once he was over two, maybe two and a half, the illness seemed to slack off considerably. It's tough getting there but a much needed break when it does. I hope you have a safe and great trip!
ReplyDeleteSorry it's been crazy and I hope things get more manageable. I am returning to work in less than 2 weeks (!) and I expect to feel all varieties of overwhelmed for at least a couple of months. In fact I think I'm starting to deliberately stress myself out a little just so it's not too big of a shock. It's quite the time of life and with little kids in particular one's mind and heart are pulled a thousand ways. I have no solutions of course but abiding with you!
ReplyDeleteYou ARE busy! I hope that your trip is a wonderful reprieve. I bet it will be beautiful! That Sandra Oh thing... yes. That's how I feel in September after the first two days of school. I hope things slow down and you guys stay healthy for a long while! Stomach bugs are the pits.
ReplyDeleteAh, the dreaded daycare illnesses. It does feel like they come home with something every other day or so - and then pass it on. I remember feeling like that whole winter, one of us was sick constantly, and about the time that person would get better, someone else would come down with whatever illness. So sorry about that - it's no fun, especially with a busy work schedule.
ReplyDeleteHere's hoping things get better soon!