Mini has now been in our lives for one whole year.
Now that she's turning into a toddler we see her personality more and more which has been really fun. She will take our hand and walk with us around the house. She loves getting into everything. If there is an open press, she will crawl over to it and start taking everything out of it as quickly as possible. I'm still working on teaching her to tidy up again after herself, haha! She likes to pick up random things off the floor and try to eat them much to our dismay. She enjoys looking through her books and being read to. She has a great sense of humour too. She often gets the giggles which is the cutest thing ever. She loves playing chasing and peekaboo.
She prefers to feed herself rather be fed and likes to eat whatever I'm eating. She'll try most things. Sometimes she'll eat a lot and still seems hungry so we keep offering her stuff and other days or times she barely eats anything. Breastfeeding is going well. I reached the one year mark and decided to keep going. The new goal is to make it to two years which is the WHO recommendation. I've noticed many people have opinions about breastfeeding a toddler and aren't always that supportive. A lot of people have already asked about when I'm going to stop. It's a shame that some people feel uncomfortable about the idea of a child above 6 months or 1 year continuing to nurse when it should be seen as natural and normal. When we are out and about I don't tend to nurse much, usually just at home before naps and during the night and more often if she's sick.
Sleeping has improved but it's still not ideal. On a good night she'll go to sleep for the night around 8pm, then wake up once around midnight and then at 5am and be up for the day around 7. On bad nights she's more restless, whether due to teething or something else I'm not sure and she wakes those nights up to 4-5 times.
When she wakes I usually try cuddling back to sleep to see if that works. If it doesn't then I nurse. Sometimes if I've just recently fed her then my husband will rock her back to sleep.
She's not saying any new words yet. Besides "dada, mama, duck.." She seems to understand things pretty well though. She points at places she wants to go and she recognizes words we use a lot.
I recently tidied away a whole bunch of her old baby clothes and it made me feel sort of nostalgic. Sometimes I feel a little sad that Mini will be our one and only but I've mostly come to terms with it and am happy with our little family of three!
Now she's a toddler she shows her frustration at times. She's not old enough for me to reason with her but distraction usually works well. Or I just let her keep doing whatever she wants to do sa long as it's not dangerous or hurting anyone. Life with a one year old is exhausting but fun!
Wow that went by fast!! Happy Birthday to your sweet girl!ReplyDelete
Thanks! Looking forward to your next updateDelete
Wow, a year already? I'm amazed. I hope you all had a happy birthday!ReplyDelete
yeah it went fast as the cliche goes! Thanks for your lovely wishes :)Delete
Happy birthday to your little angel!!! and congratulations to you two as well. xxxReplyDelete
Thanks, hope you and your little guy are doing well! xxDelete
Belated happy birthday to Mini! It's gone so fast.ReplyDelete
How are you handling breast feeding and being at work? I think that would be my main issue with it.
In Germany you are entitled to breastfeeding breaks so I would take a long lunch break and go home or meet my husband and Mini somewhere.Once they are that bit older and are eating solids well then they can go without milk for longer and just have a good feed before and after you go to work (or you could pump and leave a bottle). In the creche Mini is given water and I just breastfeed in the morning and evening and a bit more often at the weekend.Delete
Happily belated birthday to Mini! I love toddler giggles. And pooh-pooh to the judgy breast police-- funny that the same people who would have judged for stopping "early" or not nursing at all are so against continuing into toddlerdom. There's really no winning for moms. I'm glad you're doing what's right for you and Mini! Enjoy all the new personality reveals to come! PS - one of my first words was "duckie" too!ReplyDelete
Thanks! Yea I find the judgement around breastfeeding can be frustrating. Everyone has an opinion and you can't please them all! Aw, cute that "duckie" was one of your first words! Apparently one of mine was attempting to say "butterfly" which is interesting as I love butterflies to this day.Delete