tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post7718014218303344941..comments2024-03-24T18:54:00.885-07:00Comments on Dubliner In Deutschland: Day after the resultdubliner in Deutschlandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-56163955507842164372016-06-19T02:31:01.685-07:002016-06-19T02:31:01.685-07:00Thanks so much. The whole thing just sucks doesn&#...Thanks so much. The whole thing just sucks doesn't it? Yes when you're an expat it can be extra nicer just going home for awhile and being around family and friends. I am really hoping that a different protocol will help next time. I really hope we both get our miracle babies soon!dublinerinDeutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14804856792598440633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-89119467433042581142016-06-19T02:25:09.735-07:002016-06-19T02:25:09.735-07:00Thanks Jess. I'm crossing my fingers for you t...Thanks Jess. I'm crossing my fingers for you the whole time that things will work out with the adoption soon by the way! I get so confused about statistics sometimes as I keep hearing different ones depending on what I read or who I talk to so it's really difficult to know what to believe. Yes it would be good if we could get a different opinion to see what a different doctor would say. I think the break will be good for me though I will probably also be driving myself somewhat crazy at the same time thinking of what I should be doing!dublinerinDeutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14804856792598440633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-58042173183310652782016-06-06T07:54:07.233-07:002016-06-06T07:54:07.233-07:00I'm so so so sorry for you. It totally sucks. ...I'm so so so sorry for you. It totally sucks. I found that a break after the last failure worked wonders for me, especially back to my home country. Sometimes you need to just go back to your home country and take things easy (since life is always that bit harder as an expat). I highly recommend getting a second (or even third) opinion. If we hadn't got a second opinion we wouldn't have found out about my balanced translocation. Different drug protocols can make a huge difference. And yes I agree with Jess that the 3% seems waaay to low. If you have one good embryo that can be transferred then your chances are way higher than 3%. Sending hugs XXXwonky geneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05708577963707950656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-91297237355633070492016-06-05T16:11:30.247-07:002016-06-05T16:11:30.247-07:00I agree that 3% seems low, especially if the embry...I agree that 3% seems low, especially if the embryo was great quality. Quality over quantity seemed to be a mantra I heard a lot. I wonder what the point is of sharing that with you after the fact? Breaks didn't work well for me, I drove myself crazy thinking of all the things I could do to "improve" chances, but it sounds like a lovely idea especially if you go to Ireland. I hope that you get answers -- one thing that I wished that we had done differently was get a second opinion sooner, as it was so interesting to get other clinics' thoughts, to hear from different labs. A new protocol sounds good. I wish you so much luck in your next cycle and hope that your break brings peace to your souls and rest for your body.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-8593390423838326812016-06-05T09:59:54.303-07:002016-06-05T09:59:54.303-07:00Thanks. Yes let's hope it's 3rd time lucky...Thanks. Yes let's hope it's 3rd time lucky! :)dublinerinDeutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14804856792598440633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-88246185976525578862016-06-04T08:28:51.238-07:002016-06-04T08:28:51.238-07:00I'm sorry hunny. Hopefully the next round will...I'm sorry hunny. Hopefully the next round will be the one!Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12984158700104992328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-46764763618379825132016-06-04T05:41:27.515-07:002016-06-04T05:41:27.515-07:00Thanks Fran. Yeah it definitely looks like the las...Thanks Fran. Yeah it definitely looks like the last protocol wasn't right for me so I would hope that there is another one I could try that I would respond better to. The fact that it was a great embryo but still didn't work is also making me wonder whether I should get any more tests done. I'll see what my doctor thinks when we go backdublinerinDeutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14804856792598440633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-51359738279351095982016-06-04T05:34:37.544-07:002016-06-04T05:34:37.544-07:00I know, I'm annoyed now at doctor not giving m...I know, I'm annoyed now at doctor not giving me a more realistic idea of our chances. Definitely considering whether it might be worth it to go to the other clinic dublinerinDeutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14804856792598440633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-80087478961457105862016-06-02T02:27:33.652-07:002016-06-02T02:27:33.652-07:00I am very very sorry it didn't work out. I do ...I am very very sorry it didn't work out. I do not believe at all your chances were only 3%. You had one great embryo, I got pregnant with my children from single embryo transfer (by choice) and the embryos were frozen. <br />I do think you must go for a second opinion, absolutely, I think your protocol is not right for you and you need a more tailored approach. The fact that the clinic is far away, should not discourage you too much, some clinics have satellite doctors that can do the scans on their behalf and then you get the call from the clinic with updates on how to progress as soon as they have reviewed your scan. Hugs and be gentle to yourself, FranFranhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05717020378275616297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-3813973319639255982016-06-01T23:34:06.036-07:002016-06-01T23:34:06.036-07:003% is much lower than I would have expected. You&#...3% is much lower than I would have expected. You'd think they would tell you something like that so you could at least make an informed decision. Maybe the hour drive will be worth it if the other clinic turns out to actually be better?Confuzzled Bevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01471749871770054481noreply@blogger.com