tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post4092027966410507445..comments2024-03-24T18:54:00.885-07:00Comments on Dubliner In Deutschland: When IVF failsdubliner in Deutschlandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-27717206914891957512022-04-05T03:38:19.615-07:002022-04-05T03:38:19.615-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Inderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03533456074220135075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-72049199575460161842017-04-01T12:00:49.402-07:002017-04-01T12:00:49.402-07:00Thanks for the support. Yeah my clinic made me do ...Thanks for the support. Yeah my clinic made me do hcg shots after transfer which can then mess up any pregnancy tests and give me false hope that it has worked! I need to be patient and just wait till the blood test next time. I have been feeling more optimistic again recently. I hope so much that it will happen for us!dublinerinDeutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14804856792598440633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-9098699084854595292017-03-15T18:56:07.346-07:002017-03-15T18:56:07.346-07:00I'm heartbroken with you that you had to go th...I'm heartbroken with you that you had to go through this a third time. I'm glad you could open up to your family about your struggles and that they are supportive of you and GerMann. Family support is huge. And I'm glad they are mourning with you. And that they recognize and validate your pain and what you are going through. Because we know this journey is not easy. Just cry it out and know that tomorrow is a better day.<br /><br />I know, Facebook is so outrageous. I quit it because it is purveyor of denial and ostentatiousness. And I got triggered with p. announcements. <br /><br />My doc this morning was telling me that Dr. Boyle's protocol for his NaPro patients (in addition to prescribing most of his patients 4.5 mg of LDN) is to administer HcG on Peak + 7, Peak + 9, and Peak + 11. She said it's tricky to do a pregnancy test because the HCG in the system will turn a test positive and that they have to look at the beta numbers to see if the numbers are going up.<br /><br />After reading a bunch of your posts, I sense heavy discouragement. I can relate to it, believe me. However, I believe it will happen for us. Just think how amazing your testimony is going to be. It will happen, I decree and declare IJN. You've got this. You're an overcomer. Be encouraged. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11083507702086670650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-90739620683580463462017-01-09T11:20:04.156-08:002017-01-09T11:20:04.156-08:00Thank you Tric. You describe it perfectly, it'...Thank you Tric. You describe it perfectly, it's a huge loss but one that is mainly hidden from the outside world which is really hard. It definitely helped being around my family over Christmas and having their support. I'm sorry your sister also had failed IVFs. dubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-37827395138073001312017-01-09T08:48:57.863-08:002017-01-09T08:48:57.863-08:00Thanks Dubliner. Good luck for 2017 to you tooThanks Dubliner. Good luck for 2017 to you toohttps://differentshoresblog.wordpress.com/https://www.blogger.com/profile/16936131757889957955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-92179020263042436582017-01-09T06:09:37.881-08:002017-01-09T06:09:37.881-08:00I am so sorry to read this. It is a huge disappoin...I am so sorry to read this. It is a huge disappointment, so much more than a negative test. It's a massive loss.<br />My sister had two IVF attempts which were unsuccessful and she was heartbroken. <br />Take the time to mourn, it must be so hard because so few people can see what you are mourning, and whatever you decide to do I hope it works out for you. <br />I'm sure it was very hard over Christmas, but thankfully you were among your family. <br />Best wishes for a much better year this year.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14557221945189781446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-14257103043686477262017-01-08T06:38:27.040-08:002017-01-08T06:38:27.040-08:00Thank you. Yea, we have been trying to focus on do...Thank you. Yea, we have been trying to focus on doing fun things together and being happy. We'll probably plan some trips or holidays too. Need a break from it all. xdubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-89625592612151533412017-01-08T06:35:00.434-08:002017-01-08T06:35:00.434-08:00Yes it is really such a let down when IVF fails af...Yes it is really such a let down when IVF fails after all the build up and hope! I wish it had better success rates, it certainly isn't the solution for everyone unfortunately. I had a nice Christmas despite everything, thanks. Wishing you all the best for 2017.dubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-58609124941053874412017-01-08T06:32:09.833-08:002017-01-08T06:32:09.833-08:00Thanks Bev. I also really thought it would work th...Thanks Bev. I also really thought it would work this time with the extra immune treatments. Yea having the visitors to look forward to is good. Hopefully 2017 will be better! Hoping for good things for you too!dubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-63013672437885637772017-01-07T11:50:07.311-08:002017-01-07T11:50:07.311-08:00Nice to hear from a fellow Irish lady! :) Thanks f...Nice to hear from a fellow Irish lady! :) Thanks for the support. Yea I also had thought December would be a good time for treatment but it has ended up being quite depressing starting a new year with a negative result. Wishing you all the best for your transfer, hoping 2017 will be a good year for us all!dubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-305642155565710642017-01-07T10:52:58.324-08:002017-01-07T10:52:58.324-08:00I'm so sorry you also had a negative around th...I'm so sorry you also had a negative around the same time. And that must have been so awful to have thought the test was positive only to realise that Japanse tests are different! Very confusing. With my tests I was also squinting trying hard to find a second line.. And I thought I felt pregnant for a few days too. Cruel how the hormones mess with your mind! I'm hoping that 2017 will be our year!!dubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-2663518545421609572017-01-07T10:29:44.231-08:002017-01-07T10:29:44.231-08:00Thanks. At the moment we haven't been told by ...Thanks. At the moment we haven't been told by our doctor that are any problems with the eggs/sperm. We have a consultation at another clinic in March so we're just going to wait and see what they think and then decide how best to move forward. dubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-18753217355774066882017-01-03T09:21:02.666-08:002017-01-03T09:21:02.666-08:00I am desperately sorry to read this but glad you h...I am desperately sorry to read this but glad you had a good Christmas. Be kind to yourself, give yourself time and enjoy some time just the two of you if you can xxRamblesandStruggleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03989887405836709267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-30547887939935111382017-01-03T03:06:30.594-08:002017-01-03T03:06:30.594-08:00Hi Dubliner, I'm glad you managed to have an O...Hi Dubliner, I'm glad you managed to have an OK Christmas despite this. Failing IVF is quite traumatic after all the things we go through in the build-up to it, and during. Different Shoreshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04258965034047522109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-40777541299856331842017-01-03T01:55:36.446-08:002017-01-03T01:55:36.446-08:00Ugh, I am so, so sorry. I was really hopeful that ...Ugh, I am so, so sorry. I was really hopeful that it would work out for you this time with the immune treatments.<br />I'm glad you got to have a good Christmas in Dublin anyway and that you have visitors to look forward to. There's nothing quite like showing people around your home to take your mind of things. I hope 2017 brings lots of positive things for you.Confuzzled Bevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09873744799887614543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-2933035985491303662017-01-02T09:29:44.417-08:002017-01-02T09:29:44.417-08:00Hi Dubliner,
I'm so sorry to read this news. ...Hi Dubliner,<br /><br />I'm so sorry to read this news. I had been silently hoping for good news for you. You've been through a lot and it's testament to your strength to have gotten this far and I've no doubt that it'll carry you through this rotten time and see you out the other side. <br /><br />I'm having an FET on Friday (round 4) and also thought Christmas would be a good time for treatment (plenty of time to rest and relax etc) but in all honesty the worry and stress over it has close to ruined my Christmas! Oh well, onwards and upwards. <br /><br />I'll be thinking of you. Be kind to yourself - drink wine, eat chocolate, and plan your holiday. Hoping that 2017 brings happier news.<br /><br />From a fellow Irish lady (in Ireland) :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-7311848575244600752017-01-02T02:09:07.613-08:002017-01-02T02:09:07.613-08:00I'm so sorry. This sucks.
As we both ended up...I'm so sorry. This sucks.<br /><br />As we both ended up in the two week wait at the same time to one another, I know the feeling of a negative pregnancy test. I took one early despite knowing better. <br /><br />At first I thought positive because two lines is positive. I was so excited I called my husband, but the test was in Japanese and only after I looked closer at the instructions did I realize it took three lines for a positive. <br /><br />I was crushed and embarrassed by my exuberance. I called my husband, but he already had expected the truth. I used up the last of the pregnancy tests they gave me on Friday. All negative. <br /><br />The last one I kept holding in the light searching for the blue line, tricking myself into believing I could see a very faint one if I squinted. I finally accepted I was fooling myself. It was another negative. <br /><br />I kept thinking I felt pregnant. Every noticed smell and slight nausea was a 'omg, is this it?!'<br /><br />But I finally accepted the truth as I sat in the hallway staring at the negative result. Meanwhile, another social media friend has announced her pregnancy. <br /><br />I hope 2017 is a better year for us. I was really hoping for you. Nothing would have made me happier than to hear that at least one of us succeeded. <br /><br />But I guess not this time? Maybe next? *fingers crossed* <br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10656770582077959796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-56039792593951834072017-01-01T16:04:17.156-08:002017-01-01T16:04:17.156-08:00I'm so so sorry. I wish I could give you massi...I'm so so sorry. I wish I could give you massive hug. We are now taking the donor egg path. Is donor eggs/sperm a potential option for you?wonky geneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05708577963707950656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-60693178638986937842017-01-01T03:53:25.100-08:002017-01-01T03:53:25.100-08:00Thanks. I'm sorry you can also relate to faile...Thanks. I'm sorry you can also relate to failed IVFs and the disappointment :-( I got carried away feeling so sure this time it would work that it definitely feels like the rug has been pulled from under me now. I have some days off work and I've been taking it very easy not doing much, just taking it one day at a time. dubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-29245846954808026132017-01-01T03:46:05.284-08:002017-01-01T03:46:05.284-08:00Thanks. I had thought doing IVF in December was a ...Thanks. I had thought doing IVF in December was a good idea since I'd be in Ireland for the two week wait and have lots of holidays but now it just makes the start of 2017 extra hard! Yea it's difficult trying to make a plan for what next that both my husband and I feel happy with. He's on board with going for a consultation at another clinic anyway so I am hoping that will be a positive experience and give us some hope. dubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-29368455982600624412017-01-01T03:39:56.378-08:002017-01-01T03:39:56.378-08:00Thank you Nora. Infertility definitely sucks! Taki...Thank you Nora. Infertility definitely sucks! Taking some time off before we figure out our next move is a good idea. dubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-14865491238864964842017-01-01T03:38:30.018-08:002017-01-01T03:38:30.018-08:00Thanks for your message Jess. I was really hoping ...Thanks for your message Jess. I was really hoping for a Christmas miracle. It can be a hard time of year for sure. I had a lovely time with my family but seeing all the happy families and new baby announcements was tough. dubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-25260562426356826242017-01-01T03:36:05.693-08:002017-01-01T03:36:05.693-08:00Thanks Kristen. Yeah I'm the same that after b...Thanks Kristen. Yeah I'm the same that after being home or having visitors I can feel homesick for a few days. dubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-65007781745520057422017-01-01T03:33:55.566-08:002017-01-01T03:33:55.566-08:00Thanks for your message Elaine. I'm also sorry...Thanks for your message Elaine. I'm also sorry that you can relate. Infertility is a club that no one wants to join. xdubliner in Deutschlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16531838540641364420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6852337025953891596.post-36283961523988612252016-12-31T05:36:59.794-08:002016-12-31T05:36:59.794-08:00Why oh why oh why...I, too, am so very sorry. Life...Why oh why oh why...I, too, am so very sorry. Life presents us with so many perfect moments, the how amazing would it be if I could get a positive pregnancy test at this very moment, and then rips the rug out from under. It's so hard to keep going sometimes. I hope you're treating yourself to anything you want or need. Hugs.Missingmyheart https://www.blogger.com/profile/16772886805717162705noreply@blogger.com